Life Issues

Love Gone Cold


Hey! I wrote this a while ago on my previous site and thought to share it with you all. In case you haven’t seen it, and even if you have, I believe it’s something worth reading. Enjoy!

It was another day in Lagos. Mike couldn’t tell how the day would be like, but he could apply a level of faith and speak how he wanted it to be. He was done with his devotion and set out to prepare breakfast as he usually did. The times were getting hard, his job was taking too much of his time and he rarely had an opportunity to go to church. Nevertheless, he tried as much as possible to have his quiet-time every morning.

It was eleven in the morning, and so far work was going fine. He got up to submit a report to the MD. He knew how hard he had worked on it. The sleepless nights that had followed his wake. He knocked on her door and was told to come in.

“Good morning ma,” He said. She looked at him but didn’t answer. She asked what he wanted.
“I want to drop the report -” She extended her hand to receive the file from him and he gave it to her. She opened the file and ran through the papers. Mike bowed his head down and was expecting praises from her. What he heard next was to his shock.

“What is this supposed to mean? Is this what we pay you for? You can’t even do a simple report.”
Mike was astonished at her words. He had been writing reports just fine for the months he had been working there. So her sudden outburst was uncalled for. He looked up at the anger written all over her face.
“I’m sorry ma, I -” She tossed the file on the table and told him to re-do it. Mike tried to keep his emotions at bay.

“Why are you still standing there? Get out of my office and get the work done!” Mike took the file and walked briskly out of the office.

Later in the evening, Mike got into the bus and had to squeeze in between a fat woman with sweat trickling down her arms and man who was grateful to finally have someone come in between. She smelled of tomatoes and tatase. He looked down to her feet and saw how dirty they were. Mike would have shifted a little to the right, but there was no space! He closed his eyes and hoped to rest a bit, since the journey to palmgroove from Ikeja would still take a little while.
Few minutes later, someone tapped him hard on his back and he sat up, alert. The conductor looked menacingly at him.
“Oga where your money?”

Mike’s face squeezed into a frown as he had been forcefully awaken. He checked for his wallet in his back pocket. It wasn’t there. He checked his front pocket if there was any change there. Nothing. Mike was growing nervous, likewise the conductor was growing impatient and shouting for his money.
“Calm down nau, I go give you your money. No shout on top my head abeg.” Mike said calmly. The woman beside him was looking at him like he was a thief, as if he were trying to act smart and finagle his way out of the situation. Mike said a silent prayer, begging God for help. First the annoying woman at work and now this? What was happening with him today? The conductor started raining abuses on him and people in the bus weren’t even trying to help him out.
“I can’t find my wallet. I don’t know, maybe it was stolen or I dropped it somewhere in the office.” The conductor knocked the top of the bus. “O n bole.”
The bus slowed to a stop. The driver turned back to look at him and began to rain insults on him. All the while, Mike tried keeping his calm. No one was willing to help him or hear him out. He got pushed out of the bus at Maryland and the bus took off. The conductor giving him ‘waka’ as his departure present.

Mike was stuck. Was he going to resort to begging? He knew how people tended to look down on beggars and look bored at some people’s stories of losing their wallets and needing money to find their way home. Mike knew ‘cause he had acted unfairly to them a couple of times, not believing some of their stories. He made the decision to walk home. He hated everything that was happening to him at that moment. He was too irritated at the whole day. As if on impulse, he put his hand in his pocket and felt something. He brought out two hundred naira. He looked at the money and started to laugh. He shook his head in amazement. He didn’t care of the people passing by who probably thought he was crazy. Something good came out of the day after-all.

The next day he was taking a bus back home. Someone happened to be in the same predicament as him. A woman this time around. He looked away. He didn’t want to help out. He would rather treat everyone the same way he had been treated, as that was the manner the world worked. He turned and looked at the woman backing the baby, a nagging feeling in his heart wanted him to act the opposite way. He hesitated, but finally pulled out a hundred naira note and gave the the conductor. The woman turned to look at him in shock and thanked him. “God bless you sir,” she said. Mike smiled and told her it was okay. The action made him feel good. Just ‘cause he had received the treatment from everyone, didn’t make it right.

Matthew 24 verse 12-13 AMP, ‘12 And the love of the great body of people would grow cold because of the multiplied lawlessness and iniquity, 13 But he who endures to the end will be saved.’

As Christians, different things occur in life that discourage us, but let’s keep holding on and keep showing the love of Christ to others. It pleases God when we do so and we show we are truly His disciples. It’s hard, yeah I know. I’m not perfect or great at it as well, but let’s keep pressing on and remembering this is what God wants us to do. Love those around us despite whatever flaws they may have or we think they have.
Let’s continue relying on the HolySpirit to help us love the way we should.

Love quote for the day:

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, tolerant of the weak and the strong – because someday in life you will be all of these. – George Washington Carver.

Love you!

Have a great weekend!

Temitope Ogunyinka.



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Temitope Ogunyinka, is a loving, caring and friendly person. She is passionate about impacting the world through timeless wisdom and knowledge found in her thought provoking stories and writing that applies to all ages.

Her stories and articles cut across love, relationship and romance in a way that does not deny the relevance of God in our everyday life.

She is a devoted christian, passionate about bringing people to the knowledge of God’s true and unfailing love.

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  1. This is just what I needed to read NOW, you have no idea! I feel the way Mike must have felt when he pull out that note from his pocket. Thanks Temi, and God bless you. 🙂

    1. says:

      Thank God :). You welcome. Amen and God bless you too.

  2. I love you too Tope, thank you for reminding us to show love no matter what maybe.

    1. says:

      Hey Frances! You welcome…. We all need a reminder once in a while. 🙂

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